How I Learned to Drive

How I Learned to Drive
Written by Paula Vogel
Directed by Mark Vogel
Manhattan Theatre Club
March 31, 2022
Production website
πŸ’‰πŸ’‰ out of 5.

I just didn’t get this play.  I just didn’t get it.  I know that this is Paula Vogel’s Pulitzer Prize-winning play and I know that the dream team of Mary-Louise Parker (Proof) and Tony nominee David Morse (The Iceman Cometh) were the perfect performers for the story but I just didn’t get it.  I appreciated the skill of the playwright in building this sexual assault from its small simple beginning to its conclusion.  The creepiness of the relationship between this adult man and girl was palpable.  I appreciated the effects of a family that has no boundaries – how it abandons every member and opens the door to all kinds of demons.  BUT what was the girl after? 

Take Me Out

Take Me Out
Written by Richard Greenberg
Directed by Scott Ellis
Helen Hayes Theatre/2NDSTAGE
March 30, 2022
Production website
πŸ’‰πŸ’‰πŸ’‰πŸ’‰ out of 5.

This play had everything going for it!  I had seen the original cast 20 earlier but the play remained as relevant – if not more relevant today.  The play has a nice organized plot with sharp character conflicts leading to a very satisfying climax.  This play also had a highly complex masculinity.  In fact, the play became a bit of a textbook on on being a man as it explored a most masculine, successful baseball player owning his homosexuality and seeing how it played through the various dynamics of his teammates and the sacred locker room. 

YONDR Pouches

To see Take Me Out – is to meet the Yondr pouches (which I’d never heard of). Basically, it’s a thick case locker for your phone that you keep with you. The phone is locked up and inaccessible to you for the duration of your time in the theater, however is still on your person.   I asked why this rather extreme and time intensive solution to having cell phones going off during the production – then I was told that that was only a side benefit.  The reason that they are doing it in this show is because the actors in their contract wanted it to be impossible for the audience to take pictures of them especially since they are nude a good portion of the play.  Makes sense!  But, boy was it funny to watch the audience do without cell phones waiting for the curtain.  That Playbill program never got read as much as it got read at Take Me Out.  As soon as the intermission came you could see how desperately they wanted to spend time with their cell phone.  Their texting thumbs had nothing to do.  Then, right after the curtain call, they raced to get their phones removed from the security pockets. Never has a reunion meant so much.

Birthday Candles

Birthday Candles
Written by Noah Haidle
Directed by Vivienne Beseech
American Airlines Theatre/Roundabout Theatre Company
March 29, 2022
Production website
πŸ’‰πŸ’‰πŸ’‰ out of 5.

This play really had an affect on me and took me on quite an emotional rollercoaster.  The premise of the play is clear: we are going to show the passage of a woman’s life from being 18 to 91 in the very same kitchen.  Characters are going to play children and then they are magically going to age step by step to their grave.

At first I just hated this play.  To see Debra Messing wiggling her way playing an 18 year old girl talking about how bored she is with live – – I thought that this was going to be the LONGEST two hours in the theatre.  I was ready to tune out and focus on my watch.  BUT then I began to get invested in the transition from teenage years to adult years. 

To My Girls

To My Girls
Written by JC Lee
Directed by Stephen Brackett
Second Stage – Tony Kiser Theater
March 27, 2022
Production website
πŸ’‰πŸ’‰πŸ’‰ out of 5.

Much of this play’s story I have seen before.  There is that vacation spot – nine times out of ten it is Palm Springs where a group of estranged friends gather for a bit of a reunion.  There is always the hunk who runs a bit short on smarts, the smart one who is unlucky at love, the innocuous best friend, someone who love dressing up in drag and lots and lots of liquor.  You know that there is going to be a β€œhook-up” that nearly destroys a friendship, talk of AIDS, and lots of discussion of the β€œgood ol’ days.”